Manifestors

If you have a Manifestor in your life, it’s possible that you wish somebody would sit them down for an hour or so and remind them over and over and over again: “YOU HAVE IMPACT. PAY ATTENTION TO YOUR IMPACT. INFORM PEOPLE BEFORE YOU IMPACT THEM”.

Like any type, Manifestors are infinitely diverse. Our not-self patterns look very different, but typically the deeply conditioned Manifestor falls primarily into one of two categories:

😡Rebellious, bulldozing over others with no concern for impact

😡People pleasing, passive, unsuccessfully trying to suppress your impact.

Most of us have a mix. We are complex beings. Regardless of which of these two categories expresses itself more, underneath it is ANGER. Anger is our signpost that we aren’t operating correctly as ourselves. Learning how to channel anger is an art. Some Manifestors project is outwards hurtfully, while others try to pretend it’s not there… regardless, it has IMPACT.

The solution is to accept that you’re a Manifestor and learn how you’re designed to operate peacefully. You can’t help but have impact.

To illustrate this: I was working at a retreat with my Emotional Generator friend, long story short things got crazy and we both didn’t want to be there anymore. In my observation, she was more upset about it than I was. She was in a low wave, I was in a neutral emotional space. She was done faking it and didn’t care who knew, I saw the humor in it and was actively attempting to hide my judgments. Still, I was the one who was called out for my impact. I was told that my rejection could be felt from all the way in the house on the hill.

Why? Because the Manifestor aura has impact, no matter how much I try to be subtle. It’s a lot of responsibility.

I’m a 12-22. When I’m on, I’m ON. My impact is charming, I gracefully initiate social openness. When I’m off, I’m OFF. Some 12-22s are slightly better at faking it- I’m not one of them. I impact people with my mood. I walk into a cafe in a bad mood, and I can FEEL my impact. It’s so inconvenient! Why can’t I just be in my mood and live my life? Why can’t I just order a croissant while in a bad mood and sit and eat it at a table by myself, without worrying that I am negatively impacting the emotional state of everybody in proximity?

Because I am a Manifestor and I have impact, and I don’t get to experience peace until I learn to take responsibility for my impact.