Different strokes for different folks

Have you ever noticed how multiple people can apply the same ‘proven’ mindset or strategy and receive radically different results?

Nothing is one size fits all; this is where Human Design comes in.

No matter what else your path contains, HD is a profoundly effective tool for connecting to your own compass, and building trust in your discernment.

I witness this often in the realm of spirituality and personal development: a mantra that catalyzes profound expansion for one person, may actually function as a limiting belief for another.

A perspective that may have served your growth for years can begin to hold you back as you enter into another phase of life.

On an even smaller scale, the message you need to hear one day will often be totally different from the next, or even moment to moment.

For example: maybe you could use some empowerment to stop people pleasing and focus on yourself more. However, somebody else might actually experience greater personal fulfillment by learning to redirect their focus outwards, paying more attention to their impact on those around them.

Some people would benefit from encouragement to embrace their desire for greater wealth, whereas others would enjoy life a lot more if they were to stop obsessing over making money.

Some advice that’s helpful for others may be eternally incorrect for you, because it contradicts the very essence of who you are (though perhaps it’s deeply attractive to your not-self, ie who you’ve been conditioned to try to become your whole life)

In other scenarios, it’s simply a matter of timing.

It might be time for you to break through your resistance, own your desire, and take the leap. Or perhaps it is time for you to slow down, rest, refrain from taking action, practice savoring each moment without trying to fix or improve anything.

Sometimes it’s true to rise to the occasion and fight to preserve something you care about. Sometimes it’s time to stop forcing what’s no longer aligned, ;et go and surrender to your grieving process.

Life is full of decisions, big and small. It’s also full of people trying to influence each others decisions for all sorts of reasons, motivated by various degrees of integrity.

Human Design doesn’t tell you what decisions to make. By experimenting with the system, you are learning to accept full responsibility for awakening your connection to Truth, and honoring it in each moment. Nobody else can enter into your consciousness and figure it out for you.

How has learning about/experimenting with your design improved your discernment?

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