Human Design Will Revolutionize Your Relationships
When I give Human Design readings and describe my clients’ unique characteristics to them, it is not uncommon that I receive the question: "Isn't everyone like that?"
The answer is typically, "No!!! And it'll improve your relationships for you to understand this" 😂
So often, we take our definition for granted and assume that everyone else also operates the way that we do. Then we feel confused, disappointed and judgmental when others behave in ways we wouldn’t. Understanding Human Design can be a game changer.
For example: Generators often think that everybody else is a Generator too- Projectors, Manifestors and Reflectors are simply bad/lazy Generators 🤪 If you are a Generator, your non-sacral friends would love for you to understand that we simply do not have as much energy as you. It’s not because we aren’t trying or we don’t care, we just aren’t built with the same stamina. Our relationship to work is very different from yours.
The defined ego does not realize that it is part of only 30% of the population with the consistent willpower to prove that they can make and keep promises. As such, ego beings can be hard on others, putting pressure on the undefined/open ego to prove itself. Ego beings can also have a tendency to take it personally when others break their promises. The undefined/open ego is not designed to make promises, and never has anything to prove.
Emotional people often assume that the emotional wave is everybody’s reality. They don’t understand that sometimes the open/undefined emotional center is honestly just chill. Emotionals may pester their non-emotional loved ones constantly, trying to drag them into their wave, pulling for them to share about their feelings, judging them as emotionally repressed or avoidant … and sometimes there genuinely isn’t any emotion to feel or reveal. Go find other emotionally defined people to emote with.
Those with an authority that operates in the moment, ie sacral or splenic, might think everyone should just trust their gut/intuition and make spontaneous decisions. They might pressure emotional beings to rush their process.
Manifestors might try to encourage Projectors to take more initiative instead of waiting to be invited. Projectors might feel unmet when other types don’t reciprocate the Projector quality of focus, attention and penetrating awareness.
Possibility view might try to encourage probability view to be more optimistic. Guilt motivation might pressure hope motivation to take responsibility for fixing things. Direct light might tell indirect light that it’s unhealthy for them go to bed with a full stomach.
Tribal people overestimate the extent to which community is a fundamental human need, while individuals struggle to understand that others might not share their need for self-expression and creativity. The tribe gets offended when its support is not reciprocated. Individuals get bored when there’s not enough individuality and uniqueness. And people with Collective circuitry think it’s totally wrong that some people don’t care about healing/sharing with the collective, they only care about themselves and/or their tribe.
The list goes on and on and on. Studying Human Design will help you to better understand human differentiation. Still, you don’t have to understand all the infinite variations of how humans are designed in order to accept this basic fact: we are very different.
Do not try to interpret others behavior through the lens of what it would mean if you were behaving in that way. This awareness and acceptance will revolutionize your relationships 💞